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Are you a victim of domestic violence? Are you living with an abuser? Are you scared of your spouse or partner? If the answer is yes, get help immediately, professional help, law enforcement, preferrably.
Here are some important things to think about if you are in danger of being harmed from a spouse or partner:
NEVER tell [...]
Single parents have their special needs. The number one rule for a single parent is to never leave their child with someone they do not have total and complete trust in, and that can’t be anyone they’ve known only briefly. Never trust boyfriends or girlfriends blindly.
“At the center of all we do, as a parent, has got to be safety for ourselves and our children.”
Put Safety First!
What mom doesn’t want her children to be safe? We only need to watch 15 minutes of news, or pick up a newspaper to see how fragile life is, and how quickly things can [...]
I’m really becoming afraid to buy plastic toys, and even plastic plates and cups or knives and forks. Why has this happened?
U.S. regulators need to take a look at whether a certain class of chemicals found in thousands of plastic products including children’s toys can hurt people, even make them deadly ill, a panel of experts said recently.
A [...]
Kids need friends, but kids need their family more. Until they are about the age of 18, they are still very influenced by peers, coaches, music, teachers, preachers. Not all of these people will give the guidance of which you approve. Be involved, but don’t be bossy.
Foster Parenting is one of the hardest things you’ll ever do. Good intentions will not take you far. You need tools; this is not a playground you have entered. These are real kids, children and families in crisis. You will get mad, sick, you will be exhausted and think you are not being treated fairly by the state. You will think the state is not being fair to the child and many times you will work with a system that moves at the speed of a turtle.
Be flexible, be careful, be there. Here’s are some things you need to know.
by Marisue Alsobrook
Troubled Teens are one of the biggest challenges in families today and even more so in foster families. When I look back at our hardest and even worst days as a foster parent, I’m looking right into the eyes of troubled teens. Not only are they hard to deal with, they can have a [...]
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About the Author As a mom, former foster parent, educator, family counselor, and business manager, I've walked many paths and write about them here. My university degree was in childhood development and since then I've taught elementary school classes, held parenting seminars, raised three boys of my own and foster parented over 250 kids and teenagers.
My husband, Lynn endured a long time career in law enforcement investigating hard crimes, sex crimes, and domestic violence. Together, our work has given us experiences that were tough, and we hope valuable to others. For a few years, Lynn transported federal prisoners as a Deputy Air Marshall. There, confined on a jet, and wrapped in chains, he saw firsthand where wrong choices land both young and old. Our journeys are full of opportunites, challenges, choices, and we live with our decisions. We tried to help those we came into contact with, but we failed many times. I think life is more about failure than successes and once we realize that, we have less heartache, taking defeat less personally, seeing the experience for what it is, a lesson. If you can, while you are still here on earth, bend down, and lift another up. It's worth it. You'll find that in doing so, your own burdens are lighter. It just happens. Let's talk.
We grew along with the kids we raised. We've made some mistakes, lived over them, and enjoyed some successes. We want to talk about it all, and hope it helps you.
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